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The Importance of Mindfulness, When Parenting

Updated: Jan 1




In the chaotic whirlwind of parenthood, remembering to be focused on the present task at hand, and not worried about the future may be an elusive dream for some. A huge part of parenting is trying to dodge unexpected bullets by trying to look at the big picture in order to prepare for or maybe even predict what you might need for the next activity or event. However, amidst the dirty diapers, sassy tantrums, and last-minute school runs, there exists a powerful tool that can help parents navigate the challenges of raising children with grace and wisdom.  That valuable tool is mindfulness. 


In part, mindfulness is having an awareness of the present moment with kindness and acceptance.  Sylvia Boorstein says, “Mindfulness is awake attention to what is happening inside and out, so we can respond from a place of wisdom.”  Mindfulness is also putting your energy toward accepting what is currently happening without casting judgment about the situation as good or bad. Remembering not to have a preconceived notion about what someone will say or do, because you understand that we are ultimately in control of ourselves and no one else. Mindfulness is accepting the here and now for what it is, and not reacting to what we wanted or imagined the result to be. 


Mindfulness is an important tool that has gained widespread recognition for its profound benefits for a person's mental, emotional, and physical well-being. When parents learn to let go of the past, not be scared or worry about the future, and simply accept the here and now;  it is easier to react to most situations with grace and compassion. This coupled with a conscious effort to pay attention to our own mental health needs helps to foster a supportive and nurturing environment where children feel seen, heard, and understood. 


As you prepare for a New Year, take the time to review these 6 important benefits of practicing mindfulness.  Perhaps there are a few simple shifts you can make to your daily routine to help yourself and your family live in a more present state of mind; minimizing stress and anxiety within your daily life. 



  1. Learning to be fully present in conversations and activities. 


Mindfulness invites parents to anchor themselves in the present moment, fostering a deeper connection with their children. By embracing the now, parents can savor the joys of parenthood and create lasting memories with their little ones. Try to stop jumping into a “fix it” mode. Let go and enjoy what “is”. 


2. Mindfulness can help us manage our stress and anxiety.


The demands of parenting can be overwhelming, leading to stress and anxiety. Mindfulness offers a toolkit for managing these pressures by encouraging parents to observe their thoughts and feelings without judgment. Through practices like mindful breathing and meditation, parents can develop resilience in the face of challenges, promoting a healthier emotional environment for both themselves and their children.


3. Mindfulness helps to enhance emotional regulation within the family. 


Children are adept at picking up on their parent’s emotional cues. Mindfulness equips parents with the skills to regulate their emotions, thus preventing the transmission of stress or frustration to their children. Parents can model healthy responses to emotions by fostering emotional intelligence and teaching their children invaluable life skills.


4. Mindfulness can help improve parent-child communication.


Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy parent-child relationship. Mindfulness emphasizes active listening and open communication, enabling parents to truly understand their children's perspectives. 


5. Mindfulness can help to minimize the cycle of reactivity.


As parents, it is easy to react impulsively to challenging situations, especially when we are exhausted or frustrated. Mindfulness encourages a pause between stimulus and response, providing parents with the space to choose their reactions consciously. 


By incorporating mindfulness into our daily routines, conversations, and unplanned experiences; parents can instill a sense of calm and mindfulness within their children, setting the stage for a more balanced and resilient family life. 



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